Work With Me:
Stop Performing,
Start Living

If you've made it this far, you probably see yourself in my story. You're tired of the spiritual seeking hamster wheel, done with everyone else's timelines, and ready to get unfazed. Let's talk about what that actually looks like.

I combine my extensive training in transformational modalities with the hard-won wisdom of someone who's tried everything and learned what actually works.

I use tools from my toolkit – nutrition, human design, astrology, NLP, EFT, reiki, hypnosis, and more – but only when they serve your authentic growth, not when they become another way to avoid your feelings.

I'm not here to give you more tools to collect or more methods to try. I'm here to help you use what you already have (including what you've already learned) from a place of wholeness instead of wounds.

My Approach

Authentic transformation
over spiritual performance
Whole-person healing that
honors your mind, body, and spirit
Your timeline over
everyone else's expectations
Real talk over toxic positivity
Integration over
accumulation of more tools

I meet you where you are, not where you think you should be. If you're in the middle of a spiritual seeking phase, I won't shame you for it – I'll help you navigate it more consciously. If you're burned out on personal development, I won't push more tools on you – I'll help you find your way back to your own inner authority.

I use my extensive training strategically, pulling from different modalities based on what actually serves your growth in the moment. Sometimes that's Human Design to help you understand your natural rhythm.
 Sometimes it's EFT to help you process stuck emotions. Sometimes it's just honest conversation about what it means to be human.

I believe in both practical tools and spiritual wisdom, but always in service of your authentic life – not as a way to perform enlightenment or prove your worth.

wHAT I BELIEVE IN

What "Getting Unfazed" Actually Means

I don't believe in spiritual bypassing or pretending everything is love and light. Real healing acknowledges the full spectrum of human experience and works with all parts of you.

Whether it's society telling you when to get married or the spiritual community telling you when you should be "awakened" – your life gets to unfold at your own pace. You're not behind. You're not broken. You're exactly where you need to be.

Sometimes life is hard. Sometimes you're not aligned. Sometimes manifestation doesn't work the way the Instagram posts promise. I'm here for the messy, real, human parts of your journey – not just the highlight reel.

Real growth happens when you stop trying to prove you're evolved and start being human. When you stop bypassing your emotions with affirmations and start feeling your feelings. When you stop performing your spirituality and start living it.

 You probably already have everything you need. The work isn't about gathering more certifications, learning more techniques, or collecting more crystals, tarot cards, oracle cards... It's about integrating what you already know and using it authentically.

How I Work

Getting unfazed doesn't mean you don't care or that nothing affects you. It means you're no longer derailed by other people's opinions, timelines, or expectations for your life.

It means you can hear criticism without automatically believing it. You can see someone else's "perfect" life without assuming yours is wrong. You can witness other people's choices without questioning your own.

It means you trust your own inner authority more than external validation. You make decisions based on your values, not other people's approval. You live your life instead of performing it.

It means you use spiritual tools to support your authentic growth, not to prove you're worthy of love.

This is for you if

YOU'RE TIRED OF TRYING TO FIX YOURSELF with the next spiritual tool

YOU'RE EXHAUSTED FROM PERFORMING your spiritual journey for others

YOU'RE DONE FOLLOWING EVERYONE ELSE'S TIMELINE for your life

YOU'RE READY TO STOP SPIRITUAL BYPASSING and start living authentically

YOU WANT TO USE SPIRITUAL TOOLS FROM WHOLENESS not wounds

YOU'RE WILLING TO FEEL YOUR FEELINGS instead of affirming them away

YOU'RE CURIOUS ABOUT LIVING UNFAZED by others' expectations

I was the woman who collected every spiritual certification thinking the next tool would finally make me worthy. I was performing my spirituality instead of living it, using mantras to avoid feelings and following everyone else's timeline for "awakening."

I spent 10 years in spiritual seeking mode, convinced that if I just gathered enough tools and learned enough techniques, I'd finally crack the code to being "enough." But I was using spirituality the same way I'd used everything else - as a way to prove my worth instead of trusting my inherent wholeness.

The worst part? I thought I was being selfless by wanting to help other women, but I was actually using "service to others" as another way to avoid dealing with my own life. Even my desire to help became a form of spiritual bypassing.

i've been there

this was me 10 years ago...

The real transformation didn't come from another course or certification. It came from the courage to stop performing spirituality and start living authentically. It came from rejecting not just society's timeline for my life, but the spiritual community's timeline for my "awakening."

I realized I wasn't broken and didn't need fixing - I needed to stop trying to fit into everyone else's definition of who I should be. That's when everything shifted, and I started using my extensive training from a place of wholeness instead of wounds.

Now I help women skip the 10-year spiritual seeking detour I took - not because the tools aren't valuable (they absolutely are), but because we need to learn to use them from authenticity, not performance.

THEN THIS HAPPENED

My Life Has Changed Forever

Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.

Carla helped me ELEVATE my business so quickly!

The all experience was so wonderful, I would do it again in a minute!

If you're ready to stop performing and start living, to stop seeking and start being, to stop proving and start trusting – I'm here for it.

I'm not going to promise you'll never struggle again or that everything will be easy. I'm going to promise you'll learn to navigate life from your own center instead of everyone else's expectations.

I'm not going to give you another system to follow or another timeline to meet. I'm going to help you trust the wisdom you already have and use it authentically.
I'm not going to fix you because you're not broken. I'm going to remind you of your wholeness and help you live from that place.

Ready to get unfazed? Let's begin.

Want to start with my story? [Read about my journey] | Curious about my rebellion? [Discover why I do this work]

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